By Brian Bachman, LPC | Author of Turn Off Porn Porn Addiction Doesn't Discriminate Let me tell you about a client I'll call Kim. She sat in my office, twisting her wedding ring, looking everywhere but at me, before she finally said the words she'd been holding for years: "I haven't told you the main reason I wanted to start counseling. It's embarrassing... because it's a 'guy' problem... I can't stop looking at porn." Kim's story is one I've encountered far more than most pe

By Brian Bachman, LPC | Author of Turn Off Porn You watched porn. Again. And now that stupid voice in your head is doing what it always does, accusing you. That voice in my head said: Brian, you're disgusting. What's wrong with you? You'll never change. If anyone knew the real you, they'd be horrified. Am I the only one who had that voice in my head? That voice has a name. It's called shame. And here's the thing that changed everything for me, both as someone who struggled wi

A licensed therapist with 17 years of personal experience explains the real reasons you can't stop watching porn — and why it has nothing to do with being weak.